Should I get married? How do i know it will last? How do I know my mate is true? Should I get married or not-Need help please-Should I propose?Am i making a good decsion?
2006-06-19 06:19:30 · 16 answers · asked by ~*()*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are Christian yes. But only if you love her , have been knowing her for at least a year or two and are compatible on the important things in life. Sometimes ppl think opposites attract, that relation does not last, because eventually opposites end up hating each other.
However If you really wanted to get married you would not be asking here.
THINK OF IT MORE BEFORE YOU PROPOSE
2006-06-19 06:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by noteparece? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm very curious as to why you are proposing this question to total strangers. My opinion is this: if you are asking us then, no, you shouldn't get married. Do YOU think getting married is a good decision?? Why or why not? The basis for any successful relationship is definitely communication and honesty. You and your partner must definitely be honest with yourselves first - that is where the most growth comes from. Relationships definitely don't work with someone whose MO is to rationalize. I recommend you and your partner enroll in a Personal Effectiveness Training together. I live in Las Vegas and have participated in ChoiceCenter Worldwide - the communication skills it teaches are second to none.
2006-06-19 13:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by VegasUrbanCowgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you whether to get married or not, you should marry for love and for nothing less, ask yourself can you live without this person for the rest of you life or not.
Don't propose if you have to ask this question.
2006-06-19 13:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by delboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too personal to answer, bud. Talk to your folks.
If you are a self-sufficient adult, in a gratifying and satisfying relationship with another self-sufficient adult, and both of you know the other very well, and enjoy each other's company a lot (I mean, a whole lot), then it can be the best thing ever.
Otherwise, it can be Hell on Earth, and the worst mistake you will ever experience.
Cheers.
2006-06-19 13:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you if it's a good decision, but you. If you feel like its the right time and the right person, then you should go for it. If you're relationship is stable and you can see a future with this person, then you should.
You can't predict the future, but there are things you can do to keep your marriage alive and healthy.
2006-06-19 13:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always be prepared to know that even if you are married ,people may come and go during your lifetime, everything is temporary. You'll never know what the future will bring.
2006-06-19 13:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you get married well that's a answer that you will have to ask yourself. You have to ask yourself what does this person do for me and does this person satisfy my physical, mental, and my emotional needs. Then ask yourself should you get married.
2006-06-19 13:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by teetee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have that many questions about this, maybe you need to think about it some more. You know you can take your time and make sure that this is the one. I think to many people rush in to marriage these days.
2006-06-19 13:27:44 · answer #8 · answered by solange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u think you have met the right person go ahead and get married but dont rush cause it will worsen the secenrios and your possibilities of dating
2006-06-19 13:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by nax_alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You should not get married.
2006-06-19 13:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by rkroxmysox915 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋