I have been having a long distance relationship with my bf for 5 months. Before, he would email me all the time, and we would talk on the phone as much as possible. Since Friday past, he hasn't responded to any of my emails and usually won't answer when I call and when he did answer, he said he was at work and that he would call me back later, which he didn't. He said he is busy alot lately. We talked on the phone Thursday night and eveything was best kind. He tells me he can't wait to marry me and have kids with me and constantly tells me he loves me. He is 17 and I'm 22. Does it seem like he is trying to break up with me, or maybe he is really busy?
2006-06-19 06:03:06 · 23 answers · asked by angel_girl2248 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a three year old daughter and he asked me to marry him.
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2006-06-19 06:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems strange! I had a long distance relationship and she quit writing/calling and would not talk much when I called then she broke it off with me and married the guy she started dating before she broke it off with me! This was almost 20 years ago and it still bugs me!
Good luck, you will find someone else if it doesn't work out. I did and have been happily married for almost 10 years!
2006-06-19 06:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever get busy? Maybe he does have a lot going on right now. Just give him time. And don't blow up his phone while you wait. He knows you want to talk to him if you've been calling as much as it seems like you are. So let him call you. If he doesn't call in a week then you have a problem.
2006-06-19 06:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by shiftcomma3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if things have changed (like not returning your calls or responding to your emails) thens something is up. maybe stress at his job, relationship stress, family problems, or maybe he has realized that he does not want to be in a long distance relashionship. whatever the reason, find out first. guys mature later than women. if he's 17, hes not really thinking of getting married right now. think about how you were at 17. good luck. ♥
2006-06-19 06:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but it sounds as if he is blowing you off. I have had a similar relationship in the past and I did the same thing that he is doing to you to get rid of her. I was younger and now I know that it was really immature but he is only 17 so maybe he is doing the same. I think you need to be straight up with him and see what his deal is. Good luck.
2006-06-19 06:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by LL Cool J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships always start out the way you described. Unfortunatley they usually fizzle out ... like you have described. I would not hold onto the hope that this guy will marry you. Put your effort into meeting someone you can be with locally. Your chances of a happy relationship will be much greater. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-06-19 06:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by woodybmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 17yrs. The odds are he is 1. scared 2. uncertain 3. trying
to find a way out 4. see's how difficult it is long distance.
2006-06-19 06:10:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's trying to break up. Let it go. Plus, you don't want to marry this early and he's way too young. Plus, long distance relationships never work.
2006-06-19 06:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by bay area curious george 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope your not serious in this post. if you are, he wanted you and says what he says to get what he wants, no 17 year old wants a 22 year old woman other then bragging rights - and a 22 year old going out with a 17 year old is a head case or not too bright
2006-06-19 06:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by globallylegal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okey girl
here is the answer,
Actualy it is a natural thing if one is involvel in love and after few days it happens with understanding and calculating the things have to come in near future and if he is not really fully involved you have to understand what he wants actually. he is not taking full interest though he is loving you. he may be not busy but wants to let you realize. so let him do and do not contact him for few days and if he calls back or contacts you then it comes your turn to motivate him. tell me more details ....
2006-06-21 20:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by tanweer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this just started, you gotta give it some time to see if he really just doesnt wanna talk or if he is really busy. long distance relationships are tough to maintain, but you just gotta trust each other and think of the times when you'll be together.
2006-06-19 06:08:20 · answer #11 · answered by pjfrmtw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋