My fiancé and I put all our money in a pot, mine is his and his is mine… but when he asks for money and I say that I don’t have it (and honest to God I don’t, and he knows that!) he gets mad. He’s always asking me to use my over draft protection so that I can get gas money for him. If I say no, then he gets mad and claims that I don’t care about his job, that it’s not a priority. I feel that this is unfair. I have over a grand in bounced check (yes I know that this is wrong) because we needed this and we needed that (food, gas ect… only things that we NEEDED) but I am TRIED of having to do illegal acts to get money.
Has anyone else been in this position? Am I wrong for taking a stand? What should I do, I need advice… (and please don't say leave him, i need to know how to work through this not give up)
2006-09-29
02:55:19
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girl_in707
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