I've been with my firlfriend for 3 years and we have been talking about marriage when I graduate nursing school in the Spring. She has 2 children(boy 10 girl 3) and never married, I have no children and never been married. She lives with her mother, who I can't stand so I won't go over her house,except for the kids b-days or other special occasions. So, between her living situation and my school and work schedule we don't see each other too much. The kids see their father every other weekend, but they call her the entire time they're there to come home. My main concern about getting married is that I don't want to feel like a second class citizen in my own home. I feel like if I am the one providing for the kids most of the time, I should have a say in the way they are raised and disciplined in our home. My girl thinks I should b a spectator and have no say. My response: then from daycare 2 college will b paid 4 by u and thier father. Not a good way 2 start a marriage??????????????????
2007-12-20
22:07:04
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Marriage & Divorce