My on-again, off-again boyfriend of 9 months has been planning to come see me on Tuesday afternoon for a few days now. Its been more than 2 weeks since we've seen each other. He has been helping his sister move, and told me that he just needed to help her with one more thing on Monday so he could come to my place right after work on Tuesday.
He called me today and was obviously exhausted. He told me that he couldn't come over until the evening because there were a few last thing he needed to help her move. So I got mad, because this is not the first time he has put me off for her. She is going through a divorce and has two kids, and he has helped her out a TON. Loaned her $5,000 for a lawyer, moved in with her to help her with bills, helping her move once already, and now is going to take over her share of their rent so she can get her own place.
I understand she needs support, but there are other people in their family to help. Am I being selfish or unreasonable?!?!
2007-12-17
17:38:14
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