What are family and friends usually concerned about the most : the woman's age and being older, or the amount of kids that she has...??
If a younger guy is dating an older woman in her 30's, wouldn't it be an assumption to everyone that she probably has children ??
my younger boyfriend thinks his family and friends will be more focused on me having kids, and not even care about my age......
2007-12-17 17:35:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no problem.
an older woman is every young man's dream.
it is believed an older woman will have a voracious appetite that can be readily pacified by a young man... who is young, dumb and full of c u m.
on the other hand, the mother of the young man, his aunts, sisters and cousins will be concerned that he will be worked half or fully to death.
and yes, there will be the concern that you may have a whole heard of kids.
all the males in his life will want to know...'how is she, what is she like?'. this is not a question about character, or educational background.
did i answer your questions?
2007-12-17 17:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by ramni222 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have a female friend. she is 37 married a guy 24. even being more than 10 years older she still looks better than him. so i doubt his family was concerned about her age. but if a guy is a hottie i don't know with what place this woman is thinking - after 35 womans starts getting older per minute i say. no help from botox injections any more. and guy looks better and better with each year if he takes care of himself. what will u do when he is 40 and u re 50? a man in his 40 is a juicy piece of meat. all women want men in their 40. a woman in her 50 is a woman in her 50. i don't need to tell u what it means
2007-12-17 18:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by yeahright 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not necessarily everyone would assume she has a bunch of children. But the concern is, they may be on different levels of maturity and this relationship may not last. And also, is he ready to have childern now or 5 years from now? Cause she ain't got much time to wait for him to grow up.
You go girl!
I'm 35 and I don't have children and I'm dating a younger guy. His family is not thrilled....
2007-12-17 17:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i notice that in alot of society people dun like older women and i think there are various reasons for this. first is the biological reasons...they r afraid u already have kids or cant have kids anymore secondly is the social stigma.....people think tat an older woman is controlling and have an attitude problem....i disagree with this....the best thing u can do if u love him is to proof em wrong...show them that u can be tender and respectful to him eventhough u are older....gd luck!
2007-12-17 17:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sony 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That biological clock is ticking in women. 35 is their cut off age. You are only 20. That's the concern.
Say you decide not to have children. That's fine, you can always adopt.
But fast forward 40 years. You are 60, as a man you are still vibrant, want sex. She is 70 , menopause, mood swings, osteoporosis, no interest in sex........you are setting yourself for some disappointments.....maturity levels are different even now at yours and her age.
40 years pass by in a flash. Don't you think it is something down the road.
2007-12-17 17:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
First thing i was ask if i have been married before but other then that we got along good. My boyfriend was 18 and i was 25 when we met. We are now coming up on our 29 wedding anniversary.
2007-12-17 17:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
don't care...don't care....don't care...it's none of their business
2007-12-17 21:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋