Been together for 10 years, had our fair share of turmoil, like most. But things were so good recently.To show him how much I appreciated him/us, I got him everything he wanted for Chanukah. + I got together with family members in secret and purchased a gift certificate for his lifelong dream. SKYDIVING. He was thrilled!
Night 1, 2, 3, 4 go by, and nite after nite I get nothing from him. Finally night 8 is upon us, and late that eve he admits that he's gotten nothing for me. I love giving gifts, and I know that's what it's all about. But man, my heart sank because I only asked for one thing (a juicer). I even told him if we didn't have that in our budget just to get me some cute/inexpensive pajamas. He did neither. We spent a good deal on the kids; I see where he might not have been able to go all out for me. Thing is, he did this to me last year, too. I want to forgive. But my feelings are so hurt. I feel unimportant. Seems when things feel good, he does this. W/so many things. Wtf?
2007-12-14
20:11:13
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Misty P.
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Marriage & Divorce