My BF can be so great - he is very funny, smart, sexy.. He says I love you, can say sweet things - but he can be very subtlely manipulative and abusive. He makes comments that make me feel insecure -- he says we will break up, he wants to have sex with other people, if he worked out more he would leave me, etc. -- these are always told as jokes, always with a smile. I don't find any humor in any of that -- it has left me feeling constantly insecure. I hate the feeling and my behavior has become suspicious too. He is friendly with all of his exes; they have dinner, etc. I have never met any of them -- I like to share my feelings and thoughts honestly -- when I express concern (in a gentle way), he says I am insecure. He came on very strong at first and is a beautiful guy but I can't tell if my insecurity stems from him or from me -- I have never felt like this (insecure) in any other relationship.....but this is my longest.
2007-12-12
16:24:57
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