My boyfriend's 17 year old son dropped out of Year 9, unemployed, not looking for a job, got his girlfriend pregnant (she had an abortion thankfully) steals our money, arrested for shoplifting, lies and is unreliable. He also swears at his dad. His mother lives 5 minutes away but he doesn't want to live with her because she has 3 younger children (i.e. noise factor for him). He's brought pets to our home when we've told him not to. We've tried talking to him logically and calmly but nothing seems to work! I am desperate. We have a 2 bedroom home, I am thinking perhaps I should get pregnant therefore he'd have no choice but to move in with his mother.
I am 31 in two more days and my biological clock is ticking away...
As far as I'm concerned he's had a happy childhood, no abusive upbringing, loving grandparents, no learning disability, is althletic etc. My boyfriend says his son's not had enough discipline as a child (i.e. no boundaries etc).
Please help me.
2007-12-09
04:04:11
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