My wife has had a history of depression and is insecure. We are getting marital counseling and she is currently on meds. Every now and then, she presents me with this scenario: "what if a women comes up to you at work and hits on you, would you tell me?" and my response is always, "of course I would tell you, but that would never happen my love". Now if this were to ever happen, why should I tell her? It's just going to drive a wedge between us. Now I am worried that if my manager decides to hire a female, I will have to keep reassuring my wife that no one compares to her. I would never do anything to hurt my wife and I want to make things work.
I need additional advice other than "get counseling" or "bring it up to your therapist". Please don't say "divorce" either because I am a good man with values. I just don't want our marriage to be torn apart for something trivial.
2007-12-04
06:42:07
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Dr S
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Marriage & Divorce