I sometimes feel as though no guys find me attractive...I think I heard this one guy who I liked a bit say that only a blind person would find me attractive...Im so sad. I know I'm a bit overweight, but I think I have a decent-looking face...I dont know, what should I do? I hate feeling so bad. I feel as though the only thing I can focus on right now is school, because at least that can't really judge how I look :(
2007-12-04 06:40:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Remember that the ugly duckling grew into a beautiful swan.
I know exactly how you feel. I was treated really badly in high school...at least in the beginning (when I didn't meet society's high standards). Focus on school right now.
2007-12-04 06:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Britta Britta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people have felt bad about themselves at some point. You're not alone. Who cares what a slime ball like that guy thinks? He has no class. You're better off without someone so ignorant in your life. Do what makes you happy. I know it's difficult to not concentrate on outward appearances when the media is bombarding us with super-skinny cute little things, but, the majority of women don't look like Victoria Secret models. Learn to like yourself first, so then other people can like you, too.
2007-12-04 14:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Charlotte, First of all , don't believe the lies about your looks. Focus on WHO you are and not so much on physical appearance. You seem like a kind and sensitive person. That's good!! There will be people in life that will be vicious and mean spirited. Yes, it hurts. But, you have to believe in yourself and WHO you are. I believe our purpose in life is to love and serve others. Once you do that, you will find so much peace you wont worry about stupid comments like that.
2007-12-04 14:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a creature of God. Dont feel ugly. Beauty is not judged with the physical appearance. It is in your heart. One day, a guy will come to you because of your clean heart. I promise you that.
2007-12-04 15:06:28 · answer #4 · answered by caprice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever let others be the judge of how you feel about your self i know it is hard i only have 1 eye do to a birth defect and i love my self and if i don't i never could have ever loved any one as time goes by you will meet some one who loves you for you looks go away in time but our personalty's are their for ever hope this helps
2007-12-04 14:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by irish_matt 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey - everyone feels that way once in a while. i know its easier said than done - but dont worry about what other people think - your life will be so much easier
2007-12-04 14:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by spaghetti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
been there done that and i came to the conclusion that shallow guys like that are not worth my time.
2007-12-04 14:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by Helen of Troy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋