My wife had our son-in-law arrested when he was 23 years old for sleeping with our daughter when she was 15 years old. He was convicted and sentenced to jail for 6 months.
He is now married to our daughter, and my wife has gotten over for what he has done. I disagree with my wife. He is now 27 years old, unemployed and is probably selling drugs. Should I try to get along with him and allow him to celebrate the holidays with us. I don't think so. And even if I did, I don't think it would set a good example for our other 2 daughters. That would be saying we will accept them for who they are, regardless of who they are with and who they will marry.
We still communicate with our daughter, who is now pregnant, and tell her we are still there for her, but I never want her husband anywhere near our house.
So should I continue to not allow our son-in-law to be a part of our lives, or should I let it go and accept him for who he is?
2007-11-21
08:01:37
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