My ex and I have a new baby boy. I'm 34, pretty independent and I can take care of the baby. The dad works with his family. they have a restaurant and he's there 24/7. So he doesn't have a lot of free time to see me or the baby. Anyway, he won't live with me b/c of my cats (he doesn;t help pay for anything nor has he offered to pay) so I feel he has no say. Anyway, I'm just debating if I should file for cs or give him an ultimatum. pay me under the table and no obligations to see the baby (he isn't that stand-up a guy) we broke up when I was 6 1/2 mos preggo and he never called to check on me, no emotional support whatsoever. Or should I haul his *** to court. The only thing is that I don't want him to have any rights, say if I wanted to leave the state eventually. Any advice? Should I just wait a little while to see how things pan out. The baby is 5 weeks and I need to recover from the c-section completely befoe making decisions.
2007-11-18
14:59:54
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pussnboots333
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