About 18 months ago my brother was murdered by his wife, who is now incarerated. My retired parents took on the task of raising the five children. It has been realy hard on the entire family, but I think most difficult for my mother. My parents who lived with my wife and I moved into my brothers house too care for the children. We were hoping not too uproot the kids from their already familuar routines and backrounds, we felt this would only further tramatize the children. There are five children ages 6 to 17. Recently I had suggested that the time has come to sell both my home and my brothers home so that we could all move in together. My parents are not getting any younger and its been very trying for them. When I mentioned this too the kids two began crying intensely, which broke my heart. I don't know if I'm doing more damage than help. My wife and I do not wish too move to my brothers home in the city. Just don't know what else too do?
2007-11-17
21:46:15
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paul g
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Marriage & Divorce