My wife and I have been married for a little over 2 years, together for almost 7. About 6 months after we got married, she started having an affair. I found out about it a few months after it started, confronted her, and once she knew she was caught, admitted to it. I told her I could forgive her and let's make us work. The affair continued for about 2 months, and when it ended I was willing to take her back. It has been about a year and a half since it ended. We have not had sex since January 2006, it is not even an option for her. She refuses to even kiss me. I know that every couple has fights, but we disagree constantly, about almost everthing. I think the no sex thing is a big deal, she does not. We both make good money, but we are both in our mid 20s and have college debt. We have a nice house, and she's able to get anything she wants. I'm trying everything I can, when does divorce become an option? Also, she says that if I quit smoking, she will want to have sex.
2007-11-13
12:39:46
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I.M. Worried
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Marriage & Divorce