My husband and I have been married for over 8 years. Three years ago he started his own business and after the first couple months, he was so busy that i need to quit my job and help him with the work. However, my mother in law thinks that i'm using this as an excuse to quit working. The first 2 years, we worked over 10 hours a day and the business is going well and stable. This year we decided to slow down a bit and enjoy life more. Now besides work, i have some time that i can pick up my hobby again or stay home in the afternoon to relax. But in my mind i always has a fear about what my mother in law will think if she finds out that i have some spare time. Back then when i quit my job, she thought i'm taking advantage of my husband, and when we work all day all night for the business, she ignored my effort. Now, i really have some spare time for myself, but all her 'false thinking' has made me feel guilty for having some personal life. Am I wrong?
2007-11-13
13:14:43
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Marriage & Divorce