My boyfriend of 5 years (we have a daughter, a family, live 2gether, etc.) had cheated on me once. He came clean to me about it and I didn't have to find out about it otherwise.
He is a great guy, and a great dad, and I have realized he has made a mistake. I can forgive the infedilty but I have a problem with the lying.
The thing is after everything we';ve been talking and we've been trhough, we had sex for the first time in a few days, and it did not feel the same. It was good, but why didn't it feel the same.
I am willing to work this out, how do I get past this? Why did it feel different? Will it ever feel like it was again? It's almos tlike I thought about him with her, and at the same time I wanted to get past it. I don't know what to do?
I didn't think sex would fix anything but at the same time, I wanted it, so that's why I did it. I had no idea it would feel different.
2007-10-29
02:05:24
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