Hello, this is a long one but PLEAAASSSSE help if you can.
More than anything I want a big, white wedding, a dress, bridesmaids, hotel reception, flower centrepieces, wedding gifts etc. But my Mum and Dad are divorced and I CANNOT have them in the same room. I know a lot of people will say "just talk to them, they'll be civil for one day!" But they WON'T. My mum's husband threatened to kill my Dad as did my Mum's bro. My Dad has hated my Nan for as long as I can remember, and my Dad tried to stop them from seeing me as a child. Both families have punched each other, smashed each others windows and slashed each others tyres and my Dad even has a stab wound.
So I HAVE TO ELOPE, there is no other way. I can't invite one without the other, and so I shall have to elope just me and my partner. This is making me depressed for two reasons:
1. My partners parents wont get to see him get wed
2. I really want the wedding i've always dreamed of.
What can I do? It's hopeless
2007-10-09
23:08:39
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