Well, here I am again, trying to put in words all that invades my mind and heart at the speed of light. You know life throws up all kinds of stuff that one can never imagine. The other day, I donno, just out of the blue, my mind started throwing up these conjunction of situations where I was forced to bite my tongue and throw my hands up in surrender. (my mind is crazy like that, one thought leads to another and before u know, u have an entire movie script ready !!)
It got me thinking...all through life, whenever I have been faced with a situation where I was WRONG (of having made a mistake), how it sucked to accept that fact. Why do we feel so - "oh my god, i couldn't have done that. I can't be wrong. There must be some mistake". Well, there was, and I made it.
What is this fear of accepting our worst fear of having made a blunder and having someone point it out to us? Do we really believe that if someone points it out, it reduces something of us. Is this so devastating that we can never rise above it?
We suck, we suck bigtime at a lot of things. Each one of us, no matter how perfect we think we are, or our lives are, we still find things that suck the life right out of us. But in accepting them and dealing with it, makes us learn, widens our own perspective of it. Its our mistake, why give someone else the pleasure of making it theirs?
2007-10-09
03:08:28
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