One of the details about our new (6 months) marriage that I thought made her happy was the fact that even though we are struggling financially (we are living paycheck to paycheck, do not have cable, rarely go out to eat, etc) I did not inquire into how much money she spent and what she spent it on. I do not open her bills or check her account balances. She has said at times that she is happy about this arrangement. Recently she has begun asking why most of my bills for starting my own medical practice (in MI of all states) are sent to the office address. She has also started opening checks from the local university (where I teach at night for more income) and depositing it for me when delivered while I am working on a Saturday. She said she wants to discuss my financial matters and bills this weekend, with no offer to discuss hers. I tell her OK, I have nothing to hide. This morning, she becomes angry and opens my mail without discussing it with me. Am I bad for being upset?
2007-10-05
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