I have been married for five years, but I am not truly happy in my marriage. I get along with my wife, but we are not really connected. We do not have a lot in common, but once in a while we are able to carry on some good conversations.
We have a wonderful four-year-old daughter, and I am a devoted father. I absolutely adore my daughter, but I am terrified knowing that a divorce would make things worse for her.
Unfortunately, the divorce laws in my state greatly favor the mother in custody cases. My wife has some issues that are of concern, and I am uncomfortable with the idea of my wife getting primary custody. My wife has ADHD, depression, and, under stress, her immaturity surfaces in front of my daughter. My daughter sees the behaviors and has even asked me "Why is mommy acting like a baby?"
I have been able to tolerate my marriage because my daughter is there with me. I hate divorce, but it seems like it might be the right choice. I hate the state laws that work against me.
2007-10-05
08:13:40
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Marriage & Divorce