My boyfriend (of one year) regularly tells me of things he got upto with his ex. They used to do loads of good things, things that now we will never do. While I don't talk about the things I did with my ex, I have argued with my boyf as to why I need to hear about all the things they have got upto. For example he will say things like "I'll take you to London, but not to this (specific) restaurant in Brick Lane, as thats where me and ex used to go for romantic meals", or "the best holiday i have been on was organised by ex, it was well cheap and we had a fab time"
When I talk to him about this, he says he is just telling me about the things he used to get upto, and then I feel bad for making a fuss.
So my question is, am I just being "female" in making a fuss, should I listen and not get upset? Or I am justified in feeling how I do? Any advice on how to deal with it??
2007-09-16
22:53:41
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