I'm going to be 30 soon and I'm single (after having long term relationships in my 20's).
All my friends are either in long term relationships/getting married/having children and they're great but when we see each other, they constantly ask if I've met someone and look disappointed or seem to pity me when I say no. One of my friends even told me I shouldn't be so picky, which hurt as the truth is there really hasn't been anyone. They say they're glad they will still be young when their children are older.
It feels really lonely sometimes, not because I don't have someone special but because we don't seem to connect anymore. I'm happy for them & would love to have that too but my view is that you can't chose when you fall in love with someone and at what time? I don't want to be with someone for the sake of it. I'd like to travel, try new things. From being quite positive and happy go lucky, I'm starting to panic.Maybe, my priorities are wrong?Please help, any advice would be great x
2007-09-15
12:57:10
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Ellie E
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