I'm not saying that I'm against kids out of marriage; however, do you think it's crazy that people have 2, 3 or even 4 kids and then decided to get married.
I know lots of young women that get pregnant by mistake. If they love the father of the child, they often end up getting married. But, usually after 1 child out of marriage they get the idea. They start using birth control or condoms. Then they get married before deciding to have more children.
But, I don't understand people who have 3 or 4 kids with someone over a 5-6 time period and then decide to get married.
I know to each is it's own. But, I think it's sort of doing things too backwards.
Like I said, it's understandable if you have one child and then get married b/c you want your boyfriend, you and your child to be an official family.
But, why do so many people pop out all these kids (consciously, the 1st time is a mistake. After that you should wake up and use protection.) and then have the wedding?
2007-09-14
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