Why is it that if you want a big engagement ring, you are vain or don't love your boyfriend. I would never ask for certain requirements in my engagement ring. But, I do think if you date someone for a long time you know their standards.
So, what if I want a one carat ring. IMO, if he can afford it, then why not.
People try to equate "bigger rings, bigger weddings" with bad marriages. I know lots of people w/ smaller rings and smaller weddings and they still had bad marriages. And vice versa
What's so wrong with being a little vain. I've been with my Fi for 3 years. If I didn't love him, I would not be with him this long. He's not "loaded" but makes decent money. As do I. Why can't we have a bigger ring and a bigger wedding.
I mean, why do the women get "blamed" for wanting the larger rings. In the end, the men are the ones that make the purchase and decide on the size and amount. So, aren't they just as vain as the women they love?
2007-09-10
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