Would this situation upset you, and am I wrong for not feeling hurt by it, in your opinion?
About 12 years ago, I dated a guy who wasn't sure of his sexuality (I only found out afterward I'd started seeing him). It didn't really bother me, but the relationship failed because we were very different and I felt the need to move on. I was only 17 and he was 16. We remained friends but lost touch after a bit.
A little while later I started seeing another guy... that didn't last long either, and we went our separate ways.
Recently I found out (from an old friend) that these 2 guys got it together and have been a happy couple for years! Good on 'em, I thought. When I told my female friends, several of them were horrified.
I was surprised and didn't understand my friends' reactions. So bloody what? If these two men met and realised they wanted ti be together? It's no reflection on me. If you're gay or bisexual, then that's how you are, end of story. Why should it get to me?
2007-09-09
14:35:31
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender