At least, I don't think I do. My fiance proposed to me and I said yes, because at the time, I did want to get married and start a family. A year and a half later, I still want to be with him, but I don't want to get married. My outlook on life has changed drastically, and now I don't want to get married or have children, ever. It's just not... me... anymore.
We live together, pay taxes, have insurance, and all other things that married couples do, except for the part about being "official." Am I wrong to not want to get married? I just don't see the point. Perhaps I am just trying to hold on to my independence, I don't know.
Or maybe I just don't want to make a commitment. But I have made a commitment to him, just a different one than marriage.
I've held off the marriage with the excuse of college, but I'm graduating soon with no more excuses to not get married. Any advice on how to handle the situation?
2007-09-07
04:08:19
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coolchick86
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Marriage & Divorce