I'm in the process of taking a break from dating in order to re-group and re-evaluate. I have already noticed my tendency to swing back and forth from the quiet or shy types who seem lack initiative and the exciting "player" or busy-aholic types who quickly become bored in relationships and need to run around. I want someone who has learned how to make a commitment and be stable and present in the relationship--and who also knows when it is time to get down, party, and go out paint the town. (Movies, dancing, dining, mad passionate lovemaking...)
I am a very attractive youngish forty-something poet, emerging singer, and college professor who has learned to strike this balance. Players are sexy, but not relationship material.. Party-animals are fun--for a little while. Activists are exciting, but seldom know how to create a stable and loving homelife. Poets are dreamy and idealistic. And the "normal," quiet, sensitive, stay-at-home kind are nice but...
Any ideas?
2007-09-04
03:08:46
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Indi
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