I have been with a guy for 21 years. He is possessive, controlling and demanding. I loved him when we first met and started going out. I still do love him by not like I used to. He moved back in with me a second time. He still likes to take control, and demand things. And calls me names every so often. Sometimes he accuses me of being with someone else if we don't have sex. He doesn't like my kids (whom he helped raise since they were two and three). If I send my kids text messages from his computer I have to erase them because he has a problem with that. He finds out I send messages and erases them and accuses me of plotting something. He has been staying with me since January of 2000 and I paid all the bills. Since 2005 I have not worked and he has been paying all the bills. I had quit school, to try and find a job, and I was 4 classes short of graduating. He threatens to leave, then ends up staying. I only deal with this because I have no job and no money. What should I do?
2007-08-29
09:53:54
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