We have been dating 2 years. His wife passed away 3 years ago. He says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, although he says he does not want to marry again. I have never been invited to a family function, or anything to do with his 19 yr. old daughter and 23 year old son, who are both unemployed and live at home. I have met them 2 or 3 times, and they were really snotty. Am i kidding myself to think he is serious about me. There is not one photograph of me in his home, and if I ever call him when he is with the kids, he sounds like he answering a telemarketing call, and leaves the room to talk. He has also said the most important thing to him about our relationship is the sex. He also says he loves me. Is he just stringing me along? I did catch him on several internet dating sites last year after I googled his "handle". He says they were outdated and that he had not been using them...except for match.com which I saw he visited daily. Is he playing me for a fool?
2007-08-23
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