I'm absolutely miserable. I still love him, but miserable. We get along, so the kids dont see drama. He's a great dad (lousy husband...cheater, once that I know of) Since his affair he is trying to fix it and make it up to me, but I hate him becuase of that, or maybe its that i hate what he did to me, either way, i dont look at him in the same way i used to. taht innocence in our marriage is gone. because he made me live a lie for 6 months while he was doing what he was doing, i lost that 'something special' i had for him, somethin is definately gone now. so, i consider a divorce, and then i look at my kids and my heart breaks for them. can i really do that to them? I have 9 more years til my youngest is 18, and i'll only be 40. is it that unusual for people to stay for the kids sake? is it that bad that you make sacrifices for your kids, even if it means your unhappines?
2007-08-21
06:22:07
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Marriage & Divorce