I am really stuck here. I have a friend getting married next week. She already has a house and daughter with her fiance so doesn't need household items. However, in the wedding invitation it actually states, "our house is near complete, so gifts of money would be neat!" I think personally this is rather tacky to write in an invitation do you agree? Also, she and I are somewhat close but I don't feel obligated to get her something expensive. A. I don't have the money to just give her some and or buy something expensive for the wedding. B. I never received so much as a thank-you note and my fiance and I were ignored at her daughter's first birthday party. And C. she didn't give me a babyshower gift, or a gift when my daughter was born, and gave her hand-me-downs to one of her fiance's friends she doesn't know that well when she knew I needed the clothes. I am not trying to be petty here, but I just don't feel I should have to go all out on her wedding gift when she hasn't even
2007-08-18
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