i was in an abusive marriage. my wife was verbally abusive, slapped me, threw things at me, grabbed me by the throat one time. however in between we were great in bed, she could love me like there was no tomorrow one minute, tell me "i was the love of her life and she'd be devastated if she ever lost me". blah, blah, blah. then after a big fight, left me, already bought a new house within 3 months of leaving, haven't contacted me, is filing all kinds of nasty things about me in court. so why am i having a hard time letting go of an abusive marriage? i did love her to death because she could love me so much in the moment but then she could also call me every name in the book if i didn't do exactly what she wanted me to do. maybe i'm just lonely. maybe not. i tried dating just for some companionship but it didn't seem to work. why do i still miss her? i shouldn't.
2007-08-12
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