My husband of 18 years has been getting on my nerves for the better part of 16 years. We have two children and I've always thought you have to stick it out for them, but I'm realizing that is a very old world way of thinking. He is very controlling, doesn't let me be myself, walks around moping most of the time, has no outside hobbies or interests (including sports), complains we never "do" anything--but has no ideas on what to "do".
Hasn't wanted to have sex in over three years. Tried counseling but didn't resolve anything.
Financially he is good and is a good "handyman" 'round the house. Nothing spectacular. Doesn't cook or clean. Expects me to work but says he doesn't have to do anything when he gets home because he worked 8 hours.
I'm just tired and don't want to spend the rest of my years this way. Beginning of marriage wasn't great either. He had issues with porn in the beginning. No porn now, but nothing else either. How do you say done?
2007-07-25
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