Been married 2.5 years, and although there wasn't much sex, I thought we were getting along fine. Now she started a new job, she's saying she's having crushes on other people, and she's not "in love" with me anymore. I want to win her heart back and am not willing to separate yet. I've always been the kind of guy who helps her out around the house a lot, massages her, stuff like that. Should I put a stop to all of that and make her feel what it would be like if I didn't love her and treat her good? Or should I keep it up, maybe try some other things....take her on trips, out to dinner, anything else you can think of???
I feel really lost lately. I don't understand how she can marry me, and now so soon after decide that she wants to date other people. But of course she want's to keep me around too because I'm such a great "friend"! Well I aint having that! She hasn't cheated yet, but has said she has felt temped to. What think? Any hope for our marriage?
2007-07-25
04:13:09
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qu1ck80
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Marriage & Divorce