I have been married to my husband for 8 years now & I'm completely miserable. We have a 7 year old daughter together & I feel like she's the glue in our relationship. We co-parent better than anyone I know & we are very consistant with that. He's very selfish, sexually, & has crossed boundaries a couple of times when I had a little too much to drink. We've been to counseling & that didn't seem to work. We've grown apart &, lately, I've thrown myself into my work. We fight about that all the time (never in front of our daughter). He doesn't care about how he looks anymore & we never go out anymore. He says he loves me & he want to be with me but I don't have the same feelings. I care very deeply about him, he's the father of my child. But as far as having those warm, fuzzy feelings, I don't. We were at a family dinner Sat night & he made a joke at my expense (it humilliated me) after he knew I had a horrible day. I feel so lost everyday & it's affecting me everyday. What should I do?
2007-07-23
10:05:32
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Niksmom
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Marriage & Divorce