Cosmopolitan magazine says that the more a guy is comfortable and in love with you, the more he stops talking as much (as he used to):
"You already know that guys aren't big on emoting. So when you start dating a dude who's willing to talk to you for hours on end, sharing all the juicy details of his life, you probably feel like you've snagged a rare gem. That is, until you're an actual couple and he adopts a monosyllabic conversation MO. It's understandable that you'd feel like he's shutting you out, but he's letting you know (not deliberately) that he's content and comfortable with you.
" 'If your formerly verbal guy becomes close-mouthed, it means that he feels so relaxed with you, he doesn't need to impress you anymore," explains Thomas. "Once there's a real connection, you can be together without talking. It's a deeper form of intimacy because you're being more genuine with each other.' "
Is this true? WHY? Can a smart guy explain this to me?? Break it down in details - (aka women language haha)
THANKS!
2007-07-17
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