Hi, i know the classic "dont buy the cow when you get the milk for free" bit but this is my situation, ive been with someone for 9 years, we own a home, we have 2 children.. we have a great relationship, after all these years we have been through the fire and back and we are great, except that i want marriage. i dont mean a wedding, id be happy (we dont have a ton of money) to go to the justice of the peace just to be his wife but he shuts me down after the mention of it.. saying that he wants to but theres always an excuse.. some would say at this point why bother but i say why not bother! I know maybe i am talking about doing things alittle backward but at this point any way we do it would be backward..hahhah. i mean please give me some insight that maybe im not seeing into what this man is thinking, hes very independent, we both work and have our own bank accts, ive said i like it that way so what is on his mind, any clues.. girls and guys advice welcome. its not like i want his $
2007-07-16
06:49:27
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ANGELA29
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Marriage & Divorce