saying things like "My wife is so absorbed in life and complains all the time. " and "You're so lovable and sweet, I could eat you up...or lick you up." and even more graphic things. Flirting is one thing, but he tells me that he masterbates and thinks of me as his true wife! OMG!!!
I know he's lonely, and when he calls his actual wife he says she only rants and complains. I try to explain that she's lonely too, and she feels like she's got no help. I remind him that I complain and rant to my husband, but he says he could never believe that with how uplifting my notes are to him. He writes me almost everyday. She takes care of their child and his 3 older children.
How can I make him understand that I do not want to be part of the wedge that drives him and his wife apart, without canceling contact, as I think he would be devastated. I include Bible scripture in my notes to him and he loves hearing about my kids and their doings! He even tells me that he'd be a great dad to them!
2007-07-07
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