I recently found out after 18 years my wife has cheated on me. It started off with an online relationship. She had a doctors appoint in a neiboring town, I stayed home with the kids, he showed up at the hotel. She said he tried to kiss her and she freaked out and screamed. She said he left, and that was the end of it, but she say she feels guilty she played on the computer and it lead up to this. She said she was only playing around because it made her feel wanted. Everyday, she has been trying really hard to fix our relationship, but I have so many mixed feelings right now. I have never cheated, and I don't know exactly what happened or what she said to lead up to this. In short, I guess I have lost my trust. Has anyone else been through this? I love her dearly, but everytime she turns on the computer, I get this bad feeling now. I have been trying very hard to give her the attention she felt she lacked, but I always have that question, why? what actually happened? Advice?
2007-06-27
03:19:44
·
14 answers
·
asked by
Anonymous
in
Marriage & Divorce