I'm am a 23 year old female who has been in a serious relationship for almost 3 years now. I am totally and completely in love with my boyfriend who has become a soulmate to me. He in turn feels the same way about me and makes that known. However, there is one serious, heart crushing issue with us. My boyfriend is completely scared to make love to me. We've tried once and he panicked and almost had an anxiety attack. Needless to say, we never tried again out of fear that he would make a nightmare out of the situation once again. The confusing part is: we are able to get intimate in other ways, he constantly wants to get intimate, and he is not a religious person, so this is not against his "religion." Plus, in his previous relationship he did have sex with his ex, twice and openly admits that to me. I just want to know if ANY female out there has encountered this heart breaking issue? I am currently in counseling because of this. Has any FEMALE dealt with this????
2007-06-25
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