I used to think that if something or someone annoys me, then it's my problem since it bothers me, not anyone else. Say, if I get annoyed, when people are slow in front of them, I will realise (sooner or later:), that I just need to chill or better plan my day so I don't hurry. My husband criticises me and tells me that I am agressive, or annoyign, or whatever. Some will say - look at yourself, perhaps, you can see what he is saying. I think that I will not be a punch bag and able to be objective and admit if I am in the wrong. So, whose problem is it? How do you know if it's you or him?
2007-06-14
14:04:16
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Alyssa Macey
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Psychology