to approch the subject of virginity? I've been talking to this guy who I think is a virgin(im not and he knows that), but he kinda dances around the subject when it comes to him. He seems like hes scared of women, but theres no doubt in my mind that he likes me. And do you think that if a guy is older(like lets say the 40 year old virgin) and hes a virgin that something is wrong with him and should I be cautious?
2007-06-14 14:01:16 · 11 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe you can jokingly ask him if he has ever been with a women. What exactly do you mean he acts like he is scared of women? Maybe he is the type of man that is shy and just waiting for the right women to come along. I wouldn't say something is wrong with him or to be cautious, but he is obviously inexperienced in that subject. If you're the one for him, maybe you can show him the ins and outs. Good Luck with this one.
2007-06-15 11:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He chose to wait. Why does the subject of viginity come up anyways...sounds a little limiting - for conversation with him anyways.
Why don't you talk about something else of interest? Does it make any difference to you whether you know or not?
2007-06-14 21:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no or he's sensitive like my father was a that until age 35 because he would have not been a virgin until he was 25 but he and my mother held back becasue she had to move, before they got married and because she moved .
2007-06-14 21:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by Adrianna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be right he's a virgin, but there could be a slight chance that he may be playing it safe and don't want to move to fast and talk about sex so he avoids it. I think you shouldn't push until he's ready.
2007-06-14 21:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you like this guy, his virginity shouldn't matter to you just because before you he couldn't find anyone doesn't mean anything, he's got you now and if need be you should just straight up ask him
2007-06-14 21:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by nygiant3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only thing wrong with the man is that he has strong religious beliefs and is waiting for the right woman to make him happy. I am happy for him. Tell him to look for someone like him. Do not lie to him tell him the truth he my respect you for your honesty. Good luck.
2007-06-14 21:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by Ann Marie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
so he dont want u to know
hes a virgin or not experienced much
not so much somethng wrong ...well who are we kidding if u that old n aint tapped no booty something is soooo wrong with u
2007-06-14 21:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd be careful if I was you!! I don't know any man that is that age and is a virgin!!
2007-06-14 21:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lori F 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is forty years old and a virgin something is definitely wrong. Your guess would be better than mine. You have met him and I haven't.
2007-06-14 21:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why talk about it? If he's in his mid to late twenties or thirties he's probably embarassed by it. In any event, I'm not sure why you should care so much.
2007-06-14 21:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Stephen L 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋