I stalled, and stalled and my beautiful girlfriend of 4 years brokeup with me. I am suffering enough as it, I dont need anyone else to tell me that I blew it. She just got sick of waiting for me and she told me she couldnt wait more and for my false promises, brokeup with me in January ( i thought we were simply taking time to think well) and married some ex-boyfriend 4 months later. Since she has been married, she has told me via email, phone, or messenger, that she only wanted to "be a wife, and be married." She contacted me each time. Says her husband treats her nice, but that she is still in love with me, missed me, and should have waited to marry me. However, she tells me she cant consider divorce as she just got married, but is confused bcs. she loves me too much.
As she seems to have married out of desperation and only wanting to be married, will she make herself happy? Is there any hope she will ever change her mind and get divorced? What should I do? I am too devastated.
2007-06-05
02:57:52
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Marriage & Divorce