that you do not want a relationship w/him until he has all his stuff settled and he is off the rebound. He recently went through a divorce and I do not want to be his rebound, no matter how much I care about him and have known him for years. I want something serious and am smart enough to know that he isn't ready for that right now, but I know he is interested in me. I told him to give me a ring whenever he has kicked it, gotten everything out of his system, enjoyed the single male life, and got off the rebound. If he's happy, he's happy, and I am happy for him, but if he later down the road finds himself still thinking about me, I want him to call. Somehow this made me feel better b/c I do care about him, but was I wrong for telling the man this and letting him go just like that? Should I have handled this differently? I know that he has lots of qualities that I look for in a man, and that I would love to give it a shot, just not at this time.
2007-05-30
07:35:57
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callie
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Marriage & Divorce