Okay, I have asked this question before and got a bunch of insulant answers, like grow up, you knew what you were getting into when you married him etc.
Now, I have bent over backwards to be a good step-mom. Taking the kid and his friends to the movies (paid for the whole thing), buy his clothes (dad is too cheap to front me money for it). Take him places. Planning things to do over summer vacation. Clean his pissy sheets because he still wets the bed at age 11.
I have a fully grown son who is on his own and I am kind of starting over. This kid never had any rules to speak of, refuses to do his homework, plays me against his father, has the hygiene habits of a pig wallowing in mud, and is totally disrespectful.
What should I do now? Don't say send him to his mom, cause she is dead. Is there anything I can do? Or am I just wasting my time, should cut my losses and get the hell out. The father isn't much help, he just looks the other way.
2007-05-24
00:23:19
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