My on/off girlfriend of several yrs is in the midst of making the worst choices & mistake of her life. I'm desperate to figure out how to prevent her from ruining it. She's seeing this new woman with whom she's infatuated. Well, they both are. After only a few days of being together, which was followed a few months infrequent, casual e-mails, they have decided to be in a committed relationship & say they love one another. Well, here's the deal: This is not about jealousy or me trying to win her back, trust me. We've both seen other people freely off and on, remained friends throughout, talking about our other relationships. I've been in a few that were ill conceived, she knew it, and let me know, but I had to find out for myself. Usually took just a few weeks. But now, she is investing more than she can afford to lose already, and it is clearly not love, because she's slept with me at the same time (I wasn't aware) as this woman. It's unlike her to do this, be deceitful, back & forth.
2007-05-13
03:39:47
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joe friday's grrl
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Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender