how can i get rid of my obsession to porn and lust?

Question

i'm a 15 yr old boy.
i almost ejaculate 6x daily
i just cant really help myself from searching the web with porn.
i lust about sexy celebrities and female models, which i really wanted to get rid off.
i hate what i am now, and it seems that i'm getting awful, everyday, each time that i do this dirty thing.
i'm too shy to share this problem of mine to my parents for really, ,they will be angry at me and i'm too ashamed to speak this up to them.
i need help advice from you guys, to help me get off with the habit and start a new clean me, and to be helpful to others.

Answer 1

Honey, I am going to talk to you like you were my son. First, If you believe in God and Jesus at all, you have to know, that you are dishonoring them by doing this. I am not trying to put guilt on you, because you already have it, based on your desire to quit this terrible habit. Now,...the good news is, that all you know that you have to do, is to ask for forgiveness,...and promise God and Jesus, that you won't do this any more....you are a nice young man, I can tell..and this like has nothing good for you. It can cause you to not desire women in a natural way, it can cause you to become so obsessed that it will eventually ruin you life. So no matter how much people make fun of this answer, and give it thumbs down,..here is your key..you DON"T have to tell your parents..the only ones you DO have to tell, is Father God, and Jesus, and ask their forgiveness, and ask for strength to stop this act...and then, eleminate those sites from your computer that you go to...think of them as pure evil, and start running, lifting weights, just get your mind into something much more productive, and healthy. This can be a really terrible thing in your life...instant gratification, and then guilt...it is far better to just ask God and Jesus to help you, and somehow, I think that is just what you really want to do. My prayers are for you sweetie...

Answer 2

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Answer 3

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Answer 4

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Answer 5

You are a normal 15yr old boy. Unfortunately, the internet allows you an extreme amount of exposure to these 'sexual' images. If it's concerning you, my suggestion is to try to stay away from the computer if you can. Try to hang out with your friends. Get involved with sports, or other activities that interest you. A simple distraction will take your mind off these images...at least to the point where you're not building an obsession with them.

But don't be ashamed...you're perfectly normal.

Answer 6

You need a girl friend, which you'll have a hard time getting if all you do is look at porn. You need to get out of your house and start doing activities with others cause it sounds like your in your house all day on the internet.

Answer 7

You need to reduce the amount of time you have to yourself. Try getting involved in something where you don't have the privacy to do this. I'm not a veteran, but I've heard the work and stress of "boot camp" puts this part of your life on the back burner. At this age in your life, try using your testosterone to build muscle, learn karate, or another art of self defense and self decipline. When the "jerk" attitude fades, have some girls in your life, and use your libido to refine your art of seduction. If you're really "oversexed" you'll have "wet dreams" as often as your body needs them.

Answer 8

Don't feel guilty about it. Its normal for a boy your age to feel so but then 6x is a little too much. Try to get involved in sports or play some games to get your mind of sex. This won't last too long for normal people. Also, don't masturbate too much, it will cause premature ejaculation in the future. Women will laugh at you for that. So try and control yourself, do something else. Still, don't feel guilty or hate yourself for it, you're only a boy.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

That can be pretty normal, actually.

I think I would try to get more involved in community stuff, church stuff. Something constructive. It gives you less time to think about that kind of stuff.

I don't think you can stop the lusting part. It's just a part of life.