I have a friend who asked the question "how long" should u date a guy before you ask him what direction the relationship is headed. She has gotten answers from, just ask him what harm could it do, to it's to early you have only gone a few dates, to u are going to scare him off. My question is, if people are saying wait until you know him, u have people who have been married for 10 years who say "I never really knew him/her once it was over. I am a believer that sometimes you will only know the person they want you to know.
An abuser is normally not an abuser until you have time vested into a committed relationship. That's not something you see in the first couple of months. So I am going to ask, if a guy keeps dating you obviously he is interested or he would not waste his time so after 2 months of dating is it really so wrong or to fast to ask where is the relationship headed so two people won't be wasting their time or do you date for 6 months & in this day & age who does that.
2007-05-06
17:09:36
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Marriage & Divorce