As part of my work on male gender & sexuality with straight men, when I brought up the issue of man's sexual need for men with young unmarried men, who had not yet 'established' their manhood (since they'd not reproduced as yet)............ they were extremely open to the idea & say they all have such feelings. They refused to label men who had sex with men as 'homosexual' even if it was exclusive (since homosexual in my society means a non-man, a transgendered, a ****** (i.e. one who takes in anally/ orally). Of course they also make advances towards me............. that's the done thing.
But when I raised the issue with married men, some of them (though they're a minority, others just remain silent) would say all kinds of derogatory things about male-male sexual need........ even call them 'homosexuals' ( a great term of abuse in our society) but still make advances towards you.
Of course the advances are made in a disguised/ indirect manner.
What's the deal here?
Can u explain?
2007-05-06
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